ON FAMILY...

family...one word says a lot. There's family, then there's family. Bear with me, I'll explain.
First, you have family. This includes the husband, wife, children, grandparents, cousins, etc. Second, your extended family. This family includes those you've known and become so close to that they are considered family.

Christmas Day just passed and most of us spent the day with family. Everyone gets together, enjoys a great meal, exchanges gifts and talks. Just being around family makes the day even more special. God blessed us with a wonderful thing when He started the family in the Garden of Eden with Adam and Eve. Although the devil is doing his best to destroy the family, it is still present today.

Sometimes our family means so much that it's very difficult when they're not around. I was blessed with wonderful parents, and two beautiful sisters. We are very close. I love them a great deal and I wish I could see them more often. Susan, the baby of the family, lives in Shreveport with her husband, Allen, and son, Jordan. She ALWAYS got what she wanted, especially for Christmas! Tracey, the "older" sister, lives in Bossier City with her two youngest sons, Mark and Mason (we call him Lou). Her oldest son, Chris, lives in Shreveport with his wife, Deanna. Tracey is the bossy one. She ALWAYS has to be in charge! Stop shaking your head "no" Tracey, you know you do! My mom and dad live in Sibley and are members of Whispering Pines MBC (my extended family). My mom is the sweetest mom in the whole world. She cooks a big Sunday dinner for everyone just in case they show up. I sure miss being there on Sundays. It's probably how I've kept my weight off though. Dad works in construction. He builds anything as long as there is concrete involved. He bought himself a corvette last year (Merry Christmas). I'm thinking that since I'm his favorite daughter that I'll inherit it some day. Don't hate on me sisters, you know I am! Anyway, this is my family and I miss them. Btw, I didn't include my spouse and daughter on this post because I've already told you about them in my "about me" section.

My family at Whispering Pines means a lot to me, too. Many of them have known me since I was a little brat. I'm glad they've seen me turn into such a wonderful and God-fearing adult because I'm sure they were worried for a little while. Sis Jo can tell you about our trip to Kentucky. Really, what teenager is going to behave when she's away from her parents for two weeks? Sis Opal was one of the best teachers I ever had. I wonder if she remembers the spaghetti that I cooked at her house to raise money for our youth group. Church folks will eat ANYTHING, especially Baptists! Just thinking about all this makes me want to cry. I miss and love all of you.

I've been blessed with family, and family. Thank you, Lord.

on him

Have you ever just thought "would he just shut up!?"

ON PRAISING GOD IN THE STORM

I met a man tonight at work who touched my heart. He was in town from Texas because he received a call Monday that his son, age 19, committed suicide. His younger brother, age 14, found him.

The man's faith was awesome. He said if he didn't know Christ he wouldn't be able to deal with this. God has given him peace in this most difficult tribulation. This man was praising God when most others would be mad at Him.

I told the man that he would be in my prayers and agreed with him saying that only God can get you through times like this.

After he left, I thought about what he said. Here is a man that just lost his son to suicide, still praising the Lord, not questioning, but praising. I thought about my trials and tribulations and how they don't even come close to this kind of tribulation. I thought about how much I whine when I'm over worked, when I'm feeling miserable about where I live, when the bills are due but the money is just not there. I thought about all the other feelings that I have and I felt guilty for crying over them.

I know we all have struggles, trials, and times of sadness and heartache. We all will break down and feel beaten.

I just hope and pray that the next time I'm going through a difficult time, no matter how big or small, I praise Him and allow Him to work it out. I know that there is peace in the storm, I know that He is there and I know He'll comfort me like no one else can.

On Clothes

I just wanted to share with everyone that I am in search of clothing. Unfortunately, most of the clothes I have I can not wear any longer. Fortunately, it is due to my recent weight loss. See, last year at this time a size 12 fit good, but this year they are extremely too big. I have given a new meaning to the term "baggy look". All I need now is some "bling-bling", a t-shirt that's three sizes too big, and a pair of boxing shorts to show over the top of my pants and I will look like I came straight out the ghetto.

I gave my clothes to a lady at my church. So, if you run across some awesome prices or just happen to have any size 8 pants or skirts, or medium tops, please, let me know. I did purchase a great little dress two weeks ago and other items. I just need a few more things. Please make sure the clothes are from this decade. I have written below what I like and what I don't like so you don't waste your time.

Likes:
1. Love-animal prints (except for cows)
2. Love below the waist pants ( hate the pants that come all the way up to the waist- I may be 40 but I'm not 60)
3. Long, medium or short skirts (not too short- I don't want anyone to start calling me names)
4. I like purple, black, red, and brown

Dislikes:
1. Absolutely no elastic waist (only acceptable in jogging pants)-one word - GRANDMA!
2. Big floral designs - that went out when Miami Vice went off the air!
3. Moo-moos -need I say more?
4. Dresses that cover from the neck down to the ankle (I'm not Amish)
5. Velour

Hope that helped!